Focal Point

In this new world, men have come under criticism from the womenfolk for being tad a bit too soft or unmanly . It seems to be true even as we remain impassioned to the claim and we ought to take action because there is cause for concern that the views by our women are true. It is pertinent that we stop blaming feminism for our failed masculinity. Women are not to blame. We, men, are the culpable party. Following ground breaking progress that we have witnessed and even been part of in the past two or three decades, and with a projection of even greater strides ahead, it is unfortunate that we still insist on raising our boys the same way our grandfathers' grandfathers were raised. In that era of yore, it was definitly encouraged right from birth that bossing women was not just a choice but nature. Afterall women then were viewed as discounts of humanity. It was easier to get women to do things for you by either shouting, demeaning or even beating her. In fact the latter was encoura

In our never ending quest of living, we human beings are driven by the intrinsic need for self-development. Owing to this wee fact, at times we overreach, crossing all the way into the selfish territory and even plunging into the yaws of greed. Now, I'm an asshole just like everyone else and I know a little selfishness is a must, like masturbation to a starved soul. However greed is a territory we never want to cross, much like excessive masturbation to a disturbed soul. So, in this rhetoric, I seek to persuade all ye assholes(basically everyone) from totally slaving to this trait.  Unless you don't associate with anyone, you have been an asshole to someone at some point at some place at sometime in your life. So, watu, here is how we can remain little, inoffensive assholes instead of the heavy juggernauts of this terrible behaviour whom everyone wants to punch in the face. 1. Accept that you are an asshole Yes I know. You are pious and can drink pee and let someone else hav